We often want more than we have now. More money, more gadgets, better furniture, a better house, a better car, more clothes, more shoes, more success. And what happens when we get more? We aren’t satisfied, because there are new ads for new iPods, for new laptops, for new iPhones, for new cars, for new clothes. We have to have those. It’s impossible to satisfy that hunger for more, because our culture is not satisfied with what we have, but is geared to wanting more. That's sounds preachy, so let’s move beyond that. Try asking yourself now how much is enough, how much do you need in order to be satisfied? My answer is that i would already have enough — possibly more than enough. (doubt it ?)
What does “enough” mean?Enough doesn’t mean the just bare necessities of life. That would be food, water, shelter and clothing. It could be a house with a bed, a table, a chair, a place for food storage and preparation, a toilet, perhaps a shower. That’s not really enough.
Enough means having enough to live, and enough to be happy, and enough to thrive. For me, as I get happiness from writing and blogging, I would need a laptop. Perhaps I could use the public library’s computer, but in any case “enough” would include some access to a computer.
Enough would also mean food beyond just survival food — food that makes us happy, but not so much food that we are being excessive and gorging ourselves.
Enough could include cars, if those are necessary, but for some people it wouldn’t necessarily mean owning a car. Enough could include watching DVDs, if that makes you happy. It could mean an iPod, as for me to be happy.
What do you need to thrive? You don’t want to just survive, you want to thrive. You want to be good at what you do, and do what you love. You want to be passionate about the things you do, and be successful at them. What do you need in order to do that? How many tools or material things do you need to thrive?
If you didn’t want to have more than enough, could you work less? Do you really need all the income you bring in, or is much of it to support a lifestyle that includes more than enough? For example, you might have expensive cars when only one cheap, used car is enough. Or no car at all. Or you might have an expensive home when it’s really more than enough. Or credit card debt from too many trips, too much shopping, too much eating out. If you didn’t spend all that money, and didn’t always want more than enough, perhaps you wouldn’t need as much income. There are almost certainly people living happily and comfortably on a lower income than yours.
If you worked less, could you be happy with enough, and happier doing other things? If you didn’t have to work, you might be happy with just enough. And you might enjoy working less. It’s something to think about, anyway. Also think about what you would do if you didn’t have to work. (but i would think there's much more things to do out there, hehe ! just a childish thought of mine)
"Enoughness" isn't something to "live up to" - it's something to discover through the process of truthful and compassionate living.
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Caramel Cheese Cake... yummy !!!
its the 1st time i've tried it but not bad ....
but can still replace bro's birthday which he had no cake for this year....
am i so worth looking at (thinking) ??
this one even worse....myself on USD notes...$$
wat's inside?? wat are they looking...
sorry, i only got this photo of yours
(the one sitting on the floor..)
me & korine :)
korine, jennifer & I....
camwhore of ourselves... hehe
